Well, November = Media Fast.
Frankly, I loved this fast this summer when my man was around and it was happy family time.
But for this next month, I will have a very busy hubs. (We are two classes away from his Master’s Degree. Two. This can happen.)
So this will mostly be my circus.
I will be deactivating Facebook, which is somewhat of a relief. I love people, but I get too many stories and events swirling in my brain sometimes. Pinterest will be only for recipes/crafts I’ve already pinned and now want to actually execute. I won’t be watching TV or movies, although this is rare for me these days anyway. I have lots of books I have been itching to read. The boys can watch 30 minutes of PBS or videos in the morning and 30 in the evening. But we’re gonna pack up the Wii and iPad for them this month. I’m going to limit the radio in the car, too, mostly to encourage more conversation.
I’ll still be texting (this is not a stronghold in my life) and emailing and using biblegateway.com and such during my daily hour allotment of internet. And I won’t worry about media at friends’ houses or the Kid Zone at the Y.
My guess is I will be much more emotionally tired without an easy “out” of PBS or whatever when I need a break from talking or even sweet questions. I’m going to have to be more creative in the mornings if they get up after the allowed time but before I’m finished reading. They often jump into something media related, so that will have to change.
When we did this for a week as a small group…whenever ago…I realized the best thing to start the day on the right foot was to put out a toy or game or craft type item they haven’t seen in a while the night before. When it is prominently displayed on the living room floor, they are distracted by the shiny “new” object – instead of the fact they cannot play My Singing Monsters before they’ve even brushed their teeth.
My other saving grace will have to be to implement (and enforce) a Rest Time/Quiet Time during the afternoons. This is to ensure I still have children surviving at the end of the month.
I can’t tell how much I’ll be on here. I have so many things I want to work on and without the ability to numb the boys’ minds with technology easily work during the day, I doubt I’ll have much time to do it all.
So we will see.
For now, a quick insight from Jen in 7 :
“If I could go back to the Jen of 2004, surrounded by babies…I would tell her a few things:
First, I would stroke her hair and tell her I know how hard she is trying. I know she genuinely loves Jesus and is trying to be obedient. I would be far more gentle with her than she was with herself during those years…
I would tell [her]:
It’s okay to admit your worst struggles. To actual people.
You don’t have to be awesome. You can be ordinary.
Jesus warned against wealth for a reason. Stop chasing it.
Then I would call forth the best in her, and I would say: Guess what? You’re going to walk away from power and reputation, and you’ll break bread with the homeless and give away the shoes off your feet. You’ll be free soon. This nagging tension that things aren’t right, that life is more than blessing extremely blessed people…that’s all true…
Finally, I would hug 2004 Jen, understanding discipleship is a journey, and each stage is a necessary precursor to the following one. God was right in Proverbs: our light is the dimmest at the beginning of salvation, but it grows brighter and brighter as we go. There is no wasted scene, no futile season…
The wise responder humbly receives truth, allows it to supersede the version he or she is holding, and adjusts…I giggle to imagine what 2017 Jen would come back to teach me; I don’t even know what I don’t know.
So for now I’ll continue to reduce and simplify, fight and engage until I know what else to do. What I know now is this: less. I don’t need to have the most, be the best, or reach the top…It doesn’t matter what I own or how I’m perceived…
I’m just beginning to embrace the liberation that only exists at the bottom, where I have nothing to defend, nothing to protect. Where it doesn’t matter if I’m right or esteemed or positioned well. I wonder if that’s the freedom Jesus meant when He said,
‘Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven’ (Matt. 5:3).
In order for Jesus’ kingdom to come, my kingdom will have to go, and for the first time I think I’m okay with that.”
(7 an experimental mutiny against excess, pgs 107-109)