All the ends of the earth will remember and turn to the LORD,
And all the families of the nations
Will bow down before him,
For dominion belongs to the LORD
And he rules over the nations.
Loving God and Loving People on purpose
All the ends of the earth will remember and turn to the LORD,
And all the families of the nations
Will bow down before him,
For dominion belongs to the LORD
And he rules over the nations.
“My prayer is not for them alone. I pray also for those who will believe in me through their message, that all of them may be one, Father, just as you are in me and I am in you.
May they also be in us so that the world may believe that you have sent me. I have given them the glory that you gave me, that they may be one as we are one:
I in them and you in me.
May they be brought to complete unity to let the world know that you sent me…”
John 17:20-23
I haven’t really thought too much about how making His Name our Strong Tower and being sanctified by The Truth while remaining in the world is connected with the unity of believers.
But it makes sense.
Remembering that unity does not mean uniformity, I have been pondering the different ways we all fill our brains with stuff. This, of course, is a good thing as most of us aren’t called to read the Bible all day. Even our pastor, like he said yesterday, doesn’t live in a closet between Sundays. We all live in a real world. And we have to think about the things He’s called us to. Teaching, construction, business, retail, engineering, art, health care, home management, social services, parenting. All these things are such beautiful expressions of our multi-faceted, infinite God. There is no need for uniformity in this.
However, as Believers, something has to bind us in unity. Oh thank the good goodness we have His Spirit. But praise Him we also have His Word. Without it we will always be confused.
If the main way the world sees us as His is our unity and love for each other, whenever those things are out of whack, we had best get our tails in the Word. The Truth.
Of course this is difficult. I can be in Proverbs and you could be in Revelations. These are very different books. But the same Spirit is in those Words. That is the Spirit with which we need to connect for unity and love.
We can remember certain things:
There are rib issues and spine issues. We do not have to have uniformity in the ribs. And trying to force uniformity on those issues will lead to resentment and disunity.
We are always called to love each other.
Pride is never okay with God. It shouldn’t be okay with us.
The enemy is prowling around like a roaring lion. That is in the Bible. We need to pray for each other and protect each other.
If we have something against our brother or sister, we need to go to them.
Idolatry always leads to captivity. Love God more than you love anything else. He’s jealous for us and that jealousy protects us. It is for our good.
If we are not believing God we will take matters into our own hands. Unbelief leads to bad things. Ask me how I know.
Legalism will choke the life out of us and His Spirit among us. Let’s depend on His grace even as we are obedient in what His Word tells us to do and the ways He’s individually leading us.
If we are not praying, we are not syncing up with Him. And you know what I mean by praying. Not just telling Him what we’d like Him to do. But pouring out our hearts, then making sure we don’t get up from our knees until we have surrendered those plans and can honestly conclude, “Not my will, but Yours.”
We will not see our blind spots without community. We need to listen to the feedback we give each other in love.
In love.
I am not some sage here. I have learned pretty much all of these things the hard way. You probably have, too. We’re gonna mess them up. But let’s give some grace, friends. The world is hard enough on all of us. Let’s have some honest love and mercy and patience and kindness and joy and gentleness and humility and protection and trust and hope and perseverance and considering others as better than ourselves in our relationships as Believers.
Our unity and His glory is at stake.
Be exalted, O LORD, in Your strength;
We will sing and praise Your might.
So, The Truth.
“Sanctify them by the truth; Your Word is truth.”
Sanctify means to set apart as sacred. We are set apart as sacred in this dark world by Truth.
The only way we could be the light of the world, living sacrifices, and have our conversations always be full of grace and seasoned with salt is if we are sanctified by the truth. Since the only offensive weapon we’re given in Ephesians 6 is the Sword of the Spirit, the Word of God, it would be good to know how to wield it.
There have been seasons of my life where, in the heat of battle, I have drawn my Sword and it was only 6 inches long.
I hadn’t been renewing my mind, making sure I had the mind of Christ, taking my thoughts captive.
Our pastor talks about getting perspective, but leaking perspective.
I leak.
My brain is so prone to self-absorption and the lies of this world.
But when I feed it Truth? His Spirit in me resonates with the Spirit of His Word.
Deep calls to deep.
Truth prevails.
And it sets me apart as sacred out in that dark world.
And when I can tell I’m leaking, well, I can feed my brain more Truth!
That is how we can, as my friend says, “leave potato chips everywhere we go.” Our conversations will be seasoned with salt. It will bring out the God-flavors of the world. And hopefully not in a stiff, awkward way. And definitely not in an unkind way. But because it is oozing out of us in a natural way. We have truth in our inner parts (Ps 51:6).
What does all this have to do with media?
If we are oozing truth, we will have discernment when watching, reading or listening to media. We can talk about issues with our friends who don’t know God and come from a biblical perspective.
We can be aware of the kinds of things our kids will hear about in school and beat their peers to the punch. We can talk through things with them first so they will filter anything after that with a godly perspective.
We can inject truth at home into any curriculum that needs it for our kids.
We can help our kids understand their friends’ perspectives who don’t know God and help them see where the differences lie.
(All these kid ideas are from watching and reading about and listening to parents ahead of me.)
We can train ourselves to have a biblical view of the world. We can so know the truth that we automatically do critical thinking with what we see and hear and recognize any lies in it.
In that way we can be sent into the world and yet set apart as sacred by Truth.
Of course this does not mean all media is good to go as long as we’re oozing truth. Some is a horrible, corrupting influence on our brains. Some is dark and evil and straight from the pit of hell.
We don’t need discernment or critical thinking for that kind of media; we need to run away from it!
I also want to say something about knowing Truth versus doing Truth. The Pharisees knew all the truth they could, and yet Jesus – the One to Whom all that truth pointed – stood in front of them and they missed it. They missed Him (John 5:39).
If Bible Study was all we needed to know Jesus and be sanctified by Truth, they shoulda been good to go. But we are told to do the Word. To confess our sins to one another. To expose our hearts to Him and ask Him to heal us. To love one another and weep and rejoice and break bread and share our faith and be the Body.
Community is part of being sanctified by Truth. Others and the gifts they’ve been given can redirect us. They can encourage us to continue. Help us keep our focus. Give us a context in which to do the Word.
Then together, we can take The Truth to our dark world into which we are sent that desperately needs to know He is reconciling all things to Himself.
And they are welcome to respond to that invitation.
Dedicated to anyone facing a battle:
“May the LORD answer you when you are in distress;
May the Name of the God of Jacob protect you.
May He send you help from the sanctuary
And grant you support from Zion…
We will shout for joy when you are victorious
And will lift up our banners
In the Name of our God…
Some trust in chariots
And some in horses,
But we trust in the Name of the LORD our God…”
Welp. For the last week of “Media Fast” I will be aiming to blog every day.
Oh, the irony.
Aside from feeling led to write about the internal nature of simplicity, there were some personal family reasons I wanted to redo this fast. Having children really makes you evaluate what you input and what you don’t and why and how much.
(Speaking of children, I laughed the other day to realize how I started last week’s blog post. How willing my children are to go along and give things up. Over the course of that very day, that was not the case. I laughed even further when at Super Church on Sunday my oldest wrote on his Thanksgiving Tree Leaf that he was grateful for video games. And there you have it.)
In The 7 Experiment, Jen dives into John 17. I have committed to not picking her book back up, but rather to dig in myself and write through different thoughts on media. And we cannot do that without John 17.
“I pray for them. I am not praying for the world, but for those you have given me, for they are yours…I will remain in the world no longer, but they are still in the world, and I am coming to you.
Holy Father, protect them by the power of your name – the name you gave me – so that they may be one as we are one…
I have given them your word and the world has hated them, for they are not of the world any more than I am of the world. My prayer is not that you take them out of the world but that you protect them from the evil one…
Sanctify them by the truth; your word is truth.
As you have sent me into the world, I have sent them into the world….”
John 17:9, 11, 14-15, 17-18
They are still in the world…I have sent them into the world.
Protect them by the power of your name…protect them from the evil one…sanctify them by the truth.
These verses say we are protected from the world and the evil one by two things:
The power of His Name and The Truth
And not only are we still in the world – which could be read as something like as long as we have to put up with this world and its people and problems – but we are sent into the world.
As in, we have a mission here.
But this place is dark. Sometimes I feel like we can distance ourselves from that evil enough to forget how truly wicked the prince of this world is. Here in our city something happened recently that is hard for me to even think about.
And yet, sticking our heads in the sand isn’t the answer.
In this context the answer is the power of His Name and The Truth.
How we desperately need both.
I have been in Psalms right now with God. I’ve been struck by the conditions David attaches to some of his pleas for protection:
Let me not be put to shame, for I take refuge in You…
For the sake of Your name, lead and guide me…
Let me not be put to shame, O Lord, for I have cried out to You…
Vindicate me in Your righteousness…
Deliver me from the wicked and save me, because I take refuge in You…
Give the command to save me, for You are my rock and my fortress…
It is so like Proverbs 18:10:
“The name of the LORD is a strong tower;
The righteous run to it and are safe.”
I’ve found myself doing what David did.
Jesus, because of what You did on the cross….Not because of my righteousness, but because of Your righteousness in me…As I hide myself in You…Because You are my only hope in this situation…
Making His Name my Strong Tower.
This is especially comforting for times when I’ve messed up. I rarely feel morally superior to those around me (and if I do it’s because I’m being severely forgetful and choosing pride). I am such a work in progress, but I am so unbelievably grateful He has promised to use this jar of clay that I am to show this all-surpassing power is from Him and not me.
I am further grateful that I can claim if I’ve confessed my sins, He has forgiven me (1 John 1:9). But even more I can ask for the sake of His Name and because of His perfection, that He would take my mistake and do something for His glory and everyone’s good in that situation.
So. The power of His Name.
It’s like that song we sometimes sing, At the Sound of Your Great Name:
Lost are saved, find their way…
All condemned feel no shame…
Every fear has no place…
The enemy, he has to leave…
At the sound of Your Great Name!
It’s just the facts. In the spiritual world, at the Name of Jesus of Nazareth, evil has to bow down to Him.
Therefore God exalted him to the highest place
And gave him the name that is above every name,
That at the name of Jesus every knee should bow,
In heaven and on earth and under the earth,
And every tongue confess
That Jesus Christ is Lord,
To the glory of God the Father.
Philippians 2:9-11
True, the Story isn’t finished yet. And the enemy is given a short leash of power for the time being. But because Jesus the Messiah ultimately made a public spectacle of the powers and authorities by triumphing over them on the cross (Col 2:15), His Name is the pinnacle of authority.
Holy Father, protect them by the power of Your Name – the name You gave me…
I do believe we should save The Truth for tomorrow, eh? So many words!
The heavens declare the glory of God;
The skies proclaim the work of his hands.
Day after day they pour forth speech;
Night after night they display knowledge.
There is no speech or language
Where their voice is not heard.
Their voice goes out into all the earth,
Their words to the ends of the world.
In the heavens he has pitched a
Tent for the sun,
Which is like a bridegroom
Coming forth from his pavilion,
Like a champion rejoicing to
Run his course.
It rises at one end of the heavens
And makes its circuit to the other;
Nothing is hidden from its heat.
The law of the LORD is perfect,
Reviving the soul.
The statutes of the LORD are trustworthy,
Making wise the simple.
The precepts of the LORD are right,
Giving joy to the heart.
The commands of the LORD are radiant,
Giving light to the eyes.
The fear of the LORD is pure,
Enduring forever.
The ordinances of the LORD are sure
And altogether righteous.
They are more precious than gold,
Than much pure gold;
They are sweeter than honey,
Than honey from the comb.
By them is your servant warned;
In keeping them there is great reward.
Who can discern his errors?
Forgive my hidden faults.
Keep your servant also from willful sins;
May they not rule over me.
Then will I be blameless,
Innocent of great transgression.
May the words of my mouth
And the meditations of my heart
Be pleasing in your sight,
O LORD, my Rock and my Redeemer.
Just His flawless Words today, friends:
“For we are not fighting against flesh and blood enemies, but against evil rulers and authorities of the unseen world, against mighty powers in this dark world, and against evil spirits in the heavenly places.”
Ephesians 6:12 NLT
Help me to remember in my impatience that the end of a matter is better than its beginning, and patience is better than pride.
Ecclesiastes. 7:8
To the faithful You show Yourself faithful,
To the blameless You show Yourself blameless,
To the pure You show Yourself pure,
But to the crooked You show Yourself shrewd.
Psalm 18:25-26
Gird Your sword upon Your side, O Mighty One; clothe Yourself with splendor and majesty. In Your majesty ride forth victoriously in behalf of truth, humility, and righteousness…
Psalm 45:3-4
You are the King of all the earth…You reign over all, and You are seated on Your holy throne.
Psalm 47:7,8
I extol You who rides on the clouds…
Psalm 68:4a
Your chariots are tens of thousands and thousands of thousands! Our God is a God who saves…
Psalm 68:17a, 20a
You reign! You are robed in majesty and You are armed with strength! Your throne was established long ago: You are from all eternity.
Psalm 93:1-2
There’s something I always forget when I prepare for these kinds of fasts:
My children are delightful.
They are not perfect, but they are so willing to go along with whatever we’re giving up. Of all the areas, this is by far the one that has sunk its claws into their little souls the deepest. And they’re doing so well!
Now, this disclaimer needs to be made: this week there have been even more rules broken! Dan was off work Tuesday, so some sweet friends offered to watch our boys Monday night. We proceeded to go to dinner and a movie. I can’t stop love, friends. Then Tuesday we were invited by friends to watch that new movie with a marshmallow-looking robot. And we went without regrets.
All that to say…this isn’t that much of a stretch some days for them.
But they really are doing well and having great attitudes.
And we really are looking to other things first before we fill our TV quota. Success.
And from The 7 Experiment:
“A recent New York Times article, citing dozens of sources, reported that this is your brain on computers:
‘Scientists say juggling e-mail, phone calls and other incoming information can change how people think and behave. They say our ability to focus is being undermined by bursts of information…
The stimulation provokes excitement – a dopamine squirt – that researchers say can be addictive. In its absence, people feel bored. The resulting distractions can have deadly consequences, as when cell phone-wielding drivers and train engineers cause wrecks…
And for millions of people…these urges can inflict nicks and cuts on creativity and deep thought, interrupting work and family life.’
Even after this multitasking ends, fractured thinking persists; because evidently this is also your brain off computers. Researchers at Stanford found that media multitaskers seem more sensitive to incoming information than nonmultitaskers, and that is not necessarily good:
‘A portion of the brain acts as a control tower, helping a person focus and set priorities. More primitive parts of the brain, like those that process sight and sound, demand that it pay attention to new information, bombarding the control tower when…stimulated.
Researchers say there is an evolutionary rationale for the pressure this barrage puts on the brain. The lower-brain functions alert humans to danger, like a nearby lion, overriding goals like building a hut. In the modern world, the chime of incoming e-mail can override the goal of writing a business plan or playing catch with the children.'”
(7 An Experimental Mutiny Against Excess, pg. 102)
Fractured thoughts, lower creativity, less ability to think deeply. I truly don’t know anyone in my sphere of influence that seems to struggle with this, but I have seen it “out there.” I’m completely old-fashioned when it comes to actually talking to the people at your table when you’re at a restaurant. And being with the people you are with in the moment. And not always needing to be connected to cyberspace.
What about you? You or your family struggle in these areas?
Hope you’re having a lovely (now frigid) November!
Week One of Media Fast is in the books. However, henceforth I will be writing it like this: “Media Fast.” We can talk about it in a minute.
But first, a few Halloween 2014 photos:
Chiefs Player on the way to Preschool!
Swamp Monster for the school parade and party.
I love that I caught this look between them on camera while they carved the pumpkin. I feel like I can picture Caden at 17 in this photo.
Fun friends. For your reference, Caden’s request was to be Toxic Peashooter from the game Plants vs. Zombies (which he isn’t allowed to play). This was the goal:
So we got somewhere in the vicinity.
The next morning, Media Fast started out with a bang. The above photo was the boys’ choice for wake up time: Lord of the Rings Risk game characters set up in battle mode, then acted out in real life. I love them.
Later we headed to the library. Dan rarely gets to go with us so it was a treat. Caden wanted to get World War I/II and Civil War books. I promptly asked a lady shelving books where they were located. My man? He took Caden to the reference computer, showed him how to look up the topic in which he’s interested, and taught him all about the Dewey Decimal System. I love him.
And from the other day:
Twister is much less dramatic when only one person moves and the other person spins!
Here’s the honest truth: While Wii and iPad have been nonexistent, I have not done well at limiting the boys’ video and TV time.
There I said it.
It hasn’t been a horrible breach of the original boundaries, but I’m still feeling bummed about it.
My husband always puts a practical spin on issues. He said something along the lines of, “Maybe we just limit the gaming right now instead of everything all at once.”
I contemplated whether or not he even knows who I am, but then realized he was right. TV hadn’t been out of control with the boys. However, asking to play games had been to a high annoyance level, and the asking has been waaay reduced. So we have a victory. And if I’m not always letting them replace that time with TV, I think we won’t miss the point of this month.
Now for other “Media Fast” news: I am not timing myself, but I’m pretty sure that even though it’s interspersed throughout the day, I’m on here more than an hour a day. So I think this fast is more accurately put like this: No Wii, iPad games, Facebook and Pinterest.
I can live with it.
In wholesome family fun news, we’ve done one million drawings/paintings/colored pencil sketches. We’ve played many of the board games and card games we own. (Including homemade Pictionary last night with a friend…after which she forced me to watch a show. Forced.) We have stacks of books from the library we are slowly working through. Dress up has played a starring role. We’ve done play-doh and made home movies with the camera and hung out with friends.
So there is more to life than gaming and Facebook stalking.
I have been writing and writing on a personal project. But I miss blogging (mostly) daily. It makes events more cemented in my brain.
So that’s week one in a nut shell.
Hope you’re having a good one!