Well, this feels odd. I am going to share some things and I have no idea who will read this. The truth is, some of my sweet friends who believe differently than I may take a gander.
But I have learned so much about loving those who may not believe exactly what I do. And I really want to share my heart on this.
First of all, when I began to seriously desire to walk with Jesus, I thought I had to have my life all together. Especially in front of those who didn’t know Him. I thought the only way to draw people to Him was to show them how great I was.
Basically? I came across as a weirdo.
I was much more focused on performing for people than loving them.
And people know when you love them.
One of my favorite quotes on this topic I heard second-hand a long time ago. A Christ follower was asked by a friend,
“Are you my friend so I will believe in Jesus…or do you want me to believe in Jesus because I’m your friend?”
That has always stuck with me.
I know I don’t want to be a project to someone. I want people to walk beside me and love me.
Know what? I’m pretty sure that’s what everyone wants.
What are you thinking? Has anyone ever loved you like this? Do you struggle with thinking things have to be perfect if others are going to be drawn to Him?